Do you know that as a young man, living a decent and faithful lifestyle, as well as being committed to only one woman is the most peaceful, healthy and successful way of life.
It will help you save time, money, happiness, and esteem. It will also help save you from stress and lots of trouble. No lady will ever have the nerve to insult or disrespect you. Those small small girls in your area are only disrespecting you because you stoop so low to be asking a girl of 18 years with only WAEC result out even when your wife is an MSc holder.
Don't be fooled when people tell you variety is the spice of life. They always say if you eat Rice today, you should eat beans tomorrow and fufu next tomorrow but it is the same pot we use for cooking rice that we will still use to cook beans and soup. Or do people buy a pot or go to their neighbors house to borrow pot because they cooked rice with theirs last night? NO!!! They wash their pots instead and use it to prepare another meal. And after that, they will still wash the pot and keep so as to make it easier for them to cook the next meal
One problem I have with some men is that instead of washing their dirty pots after cooking, they will go out to go and borrow that of their neighbor. After using their neighbors pot, they will wash it and return but their own pot at home won't be taken care off. They will leave it so unkempt.
Your wife/Bae is like a pot and has the ability to prepare countless and numerous dishes so long you know how to handle your pot and keep it clean. There is nothing your neighbors pot will cook that the one you have at home won't be able to cook. Note: This post has nothing to do with pot
Do the practical and give me feedback. That money you are investing on that side chick, why not invest half of it on your wife and see what her life will look like. Investing on your wife is just like investing in real estate and agriculture. you give her one thousand, she will give you double of it.
Any money you give to a side chick is just a waste of money. She will still sleep with another person and might give you one deadly disease. Side chick will invest in things like buying of wigs, cloths, bags and shoe to look more attractive while your wife will invest in food, household items, your children and you yourself with zero percent to herself in most cases
Go and treat your wife right, treat them right, take them shopping, lodge them in those hotels you used to lodge those ashawo, buy them gifts, give them money to make their hair. Infact just do half of those things you use to do to your side chick and random girls for them and see if any of them will be able to match your wife's shadow.
I am always pained when I see men who married beautiful, endowed, intelligent and educated ladies running after girls that can't even match with their wives shadow. E dey pain me I swear. Learn to value what you have else, another will help you out
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